
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
The following is a list of frequently asked questions (FAQs) clients ask before starting services at Confluent Relationship Therapy:
General Questions
What type of licensed clinician is best for relationships or couples?
There are several types of licensed professionals that can legally and ethically conduct therapy or counseling for relationships and couples. In the state of Illinois this includes a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC), a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), a Licensed Psychologist (LP), or a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). The licensure looks slightly different in different states, but these are the main clinicians ready to serve relationships without working under the supervision of another professional in Illinois. Also, some clinicians choose to get additional elective certifications in various types of relationship or couples therapy, including Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
What is the success rate of couples therapy?
Using evidenced-based practices, the general couples therapy success rate is approximately 70-75%. However, there are many factors that can support or inhibit the success of therapy. One of the limiting factors can include a low motivation level of one or both of the clients, and client involvement or participation in treatment. When one or more partners do not want to be there, it shows in their level of efforts in session. The success of therapy is dependent upon full participation from all parties.
What can couples therapy help with?
Couples therapy has the potential to help with almost anything that the partners would like to work on to improve their relationship functioning or prevent future relationship issues. This can include bettering communication, defining roles and responsibilities, repairing after infidelity, managing parenting differences, building trust, planning for the future, navigating the in-laws, adjusting to new life circumstances, managing conflict, empty-nesting, and more!
Is couples therapy only for those that are married?
No way! Couples therapy is for all relationship statuses. This includes those that are not married, married, casually dating and more! Whether you have a significant other, fiancé or fiancée, spouse, girlfriend, boyfriend, mate, life partner, or however you define your person, all are welcome at Confluent Relationship Therapy!
Services
Do you work with long-distance relationships?
Yes and no! Sara’s state license allows her to work with clients all over Illinois. If your relationship is long-distance but you both reside somewhere in Illinois, then you can do virtual therapy from separate locations. If one of you is currently living out of state, then unfortunately you cannot, unless it is the state of California.
Do you offer in-person services?
Not at this time. Currently Sara is using a HIPAA-compliant video chat platform provided by Psychology Today for therapists in their directory. This is a secure online platform that many mental health professionals use instead of couples counseling via zoom. Online services allow you to access the sessions from anywhere, even during a lunch hour or in-between running errands. The video platform also allows you and your partner to log in from separate locations!
Will you collaborate with my other therapists?
Absolutely! That is, if you consent to a collaboration. Only with a signed agreement can Sara contact any of your current or former clinicians. It can benefit clients when their individual therapists are in contact with their relationship or couple’s therapist, to better coordinate care. However, Sara can also be in contact with any other medical or mental health professionals of your choosing. If you do not want any collaboration, that is okay too!
Do you accept insurance as payment for services?
No, Sara does not accept insurance as payment for services and am considered an out-of-network provider. However, she can provide you with a superbill for you to give to your insurance company if you have out-of-network benefits. Please see the payment page for more information and costs!
Getting Started
When should we start couples therapy?
There is never a bad time to see a relationship therapist, or a therapist in general! Preventative skills can be learned in therapy to make sure you and your partner are on the right path to a successful union. You don’t have to wait until your relationship is on the brink of a separation before reaching out for help. Reach out today!
What is your intake process like?
First, you will fill out intake paperwork online using a HIPAA-compliant electronic health record (EHR) before the first session. This is standard practice for therapy, as a part of the informed consent process and signing necessary paperwork. During your first session you, your partner, and Sara will all meet on a HIPAA-compliant video platform, where she gathers necessary information about your relationship. Then, she will meet with each of you for a single one-on-one session to get to know your individual backgrounds. From there, the three of you will meet all together for the rest of our sessions.
How long does couples therapy take?
This is one of the most common questions when clients are starting out! There is no one-size-fits-all timeline for starting therapy. The duration depends on a multitude of factors including what your presenting concerns are, your goals for your relationship, and how often you are attending sessions. Most clients see Sara once a week for sessions until they are ready to start gradually tapering off visits.
Should we also be seeing an individual therapist while in couples therapy with you?
Sara heavily encourages all parties to participate in individual services outside of Confluent Relationship Therapy while simultaneously seeing her for relationship therapy. At any time, she can provide you with referrals for individual therapists that she has known for years. However, this is not a requirement to starting services with her.
Reach out today to schedule your first appointment or a free 15-minute consultation to answer any questions you may have!
Confluent Relationship Therapy, PLLC
Relationship & Couples Therapy in Chicago
213 W Institute Place, Suite 500, Chicago, IL 60610 | 312-620-9075 | info@confluentrelationshiptherapy.com
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